"When obedience becomes our goal,it is no longer an irritation; instead of a stumbling block,it becomes a building block"

-James E. Faust 

What this means is ones we go after obedience it will no longer be in are way but instead help us in life. It will help us and never get in are way we will learn to use it and not just get away from it. It will help us grow in life help us reach are goals in life to. Obedience is a tool we need in life so we can have a better life so we should use it and not turn away from it. So if you want a good life id try to have Obedience in it. But if you want a bad life with no Obedience then that up to you.